Civil Disobedience, a Love Story
Meet the Abramowitz-Silverman family. They make trouble, and do good.
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He wants to be president. She wants Jerusalem to become the adoption capital of the world.

They are taking Israel by storm. Yosef âCaptain Sunshineâ Abramowitz is a longtime human rights activist, a three-time Nobel Peace Prize nominee, and a global social entrepreneur who was the first to commercially harvest solar energy in Israel. His wife, Susan Silverman, is an activist rabbi, author, and adoption advocate. Both turn up regularly on lists of âMost Influential Jews,â from the Jerusalem Post, which wedged Abramowitz (CASâ86) between Natan Sharansky and Jon Stewart one year, to the Jewish Forward, which dubbed Silverman a âprophetess.â Although Silverman (CASâ85) has put herself out thereâthere was that New York Times photo of her being hauled off to jail for donning prayer shawls at the Western Wallâher famous sibling Sarah has propelled âRabbi Susanâ to a level of international recognition that prompted Silverman to call herself âRabbi Kardashian.â If turning up on Jewrotica.orgâs list of the worldâs âsexiest rabbisâ intensifies that spotlightâone of the criteria was âbadasseryââthen why not use it to trumpet your message, says Silverman. In April she shared the podium with her comedian sister and longtime partner-in-crime at Tina Brownâs Women in the World Summit.

Ask 11-year-old Ashira whatâs interesting about her family and sheâll tell you: âEverything!â Ashira is one of the coupleâs five children. The raucous, high-profile family, who migrated from Newton, Mass., to Kibbutz Ketura in the Negev before settling in Jerusalem, are observant Jews and fervent Zionists unafraid to challenge religious orthodoxy and Israeli recalcitrance. In an age of cynics, they are unabashed idealists.

âOur family motto,â says Silverman, âis, âDonât be a schmuck.ââ

Itâs September in the Holy City. The nights grow cooler and the High Holy Days spill into the lighthearted weeklong Festival of Sukkot. If one were to take Judaismâs heartbeat, the stethoscope would best be placed on this soulful, simmering metropolis. âI love this cityâs immediacy,â says 51-year-old Silverman, who never expected to make aliyah, the Hebrew term for Jews returning to their spiritual homeland, when the family first came to Israel for what was to be a yearâs sabbatical. Etched with the battle lines of secularism versus fundamentalism, modern versus old, Arab versus Jew, Jerusalem embodies one of Silvermanâs favorite expressions: âIf youâre addicted to meaning, Israel is like pure heroin.â

Where everybody knows your Name

In Israel the two are becoming household names.

At 50, Abramowitz is president and CEO of the global energy company Energiya Global Capital, which is developing solar energy in Africa, Latin America, and Eastern Europe. The company just inaugurated its first commercial solar field in Rwanda. He is also cofounder of Arava Power, an eight-year-old company that built Israelâs first commercial solar fieldâ18,500 photovoltaic cells over 20 acresâat the edge of Kibbutz Ketura. The kibbutz is near the southern city of Eilat, and the company hopes to soon supply 80 percent of the cityâs power.

In April Arava Power launched five new solar fields, all larger than Ketura. In May Abramowitz announced his bid for the Israeli presidency, in the hope of modernizing and lending political and cultural muscle to the mostly ceremonial post. Historically a reward for decades of public service, the position has been held since 2007 by former two-term prime minister Shimon Peres, who is now 90.

Silverman is becoming increasingly well known as an adoption advocate (her website, JustAdopt.net, was recently launched with a three-hankie video of her being handed her infant son Adar in an Addis Ababa orphanage) as well as for the protests and arrest as part of Women of the Wall, a group that has fought since 1988 for the right of women to wear a prayer shawl (tallit) and bring a Torah scroll and pray beside men at the Old Cityâs Western Wall.

After three years at Ketura, the family settled into a light-soaked duplex in Jerusalemâs prosperous Baka neighborhood, where the streets are named for the 12 ancient tribes of Israel. Here Silverman and Abramowitz, their children leaning in, routinely join an ongoing repertory of journalists, rabbis, politicians, and scholars to debate the state of the world over cast-iron pans of shakshouka at the local CafÃ© Itzik. Their passions can be burdensome and exhausting; where most people see cloudless skies as a reprieve, Abramowitz sees an inexcusable squandering of potential kilowatts. While most of us react to media images of war orphans with impotent heartache, Silverman has written a theological manifesto rallying fellow Jews to welcome those orphans into their families.

Where most people see cloudless skies as a reprieve, Abramowitz sees an inexcusable squandering of potential kilowatts.

A Precocious Firebrand and a Free Spirit Converge

The sun is fading into the eve of Yom Kippur, and around a family table long enough to accommodate a procession of visitors, the Abramowitz-Silvermans (except for daughter Aliza, who is studying at the Berklee College of Music) dive into platters of salad and pasta before the looming daylong fast.

Everything is interesting. Beside the traditional challah sits a plate of injera, the spongy flatbread of Ethiopia, birthplace of Susan and Yosefâs sons Adar, and Zamir, a hearing-impaired child they adopted at age four. In Israel Zamir received cochlear implants, and as Susan rounds up the kids for the walk to shul she reminds her son to âput on your ears.â In the spirit of atonement and starting the New Year with a clear conscience, they take turns naming the previous yearâs wrongs. The children and teenagers share regrets about their obstinacy or not fully appreciating their parents. Abramowitz, who the Jerusalem Post named âone of 50 most influential Jews in the worldâ three years running for his accomplishments as Arava Power CEO and who is one of CNNâs 6 most prominent green pioneers worldwide, apologizes to his family for his difficulty in prying free from the demands of his work. Silverman softly says, âIâm sorry Iâm so spacey.â

Silverman and Abramowitz converged at BU in the mid-1980s, when Abramowitz founded and led an antiapartheid and South Africa divestiture movement. Those were tumultuous years on campus, as students, faculty, and labor unions clashed with the administration of the late President John Silber (Hon.â95). Abramowitz was a precocious firebrand, a child of activists whose Zionism was solidified during the familyâs three-year stint in Israel. He proved to be an unrelenting thorn in Silberâs sideâtheir battle of wits immortalized in a 1986 US Supreme Court ruling (Abramowitz v. Boston University) supporting Abramowitzâs right to hang an antiapartheid banner from his dormitory window. (At the time BU had $22.3 million invested in South Africa.)

Silber âwas my nemesis,â says Abramowitz, whose bold acts of defiance, along with Silberâs description of them as âtemper tantrums,â dominated the headlines of the Daily Free Press and often spilled onto the pages of the Boston Globe and the national press. âHe just wanted to get rid of me.â

âYosef didnât fit into any box,â recalls his College of Arts & Sciences Judaic studies professor and friend Hillel Levine. âHe was a smart kid from Newton here on a scholarship, and he turned the place upside down.â For Abramowitz the BU years offered an education he came to be grateful for, jump-starting, he says, âa lifetime of beating up governments for good causes.â Heâs been arrested twice; in 1985 he was arrested outside the Soviet Embassy in Washington, D.C., on behalf of refusenik Boris Lifshitz, a young engineering student from Leningrad who was allowed to attend BU after a student group led by Abramowitz helped raise thousands for his tuition. Abramowitz was convicted, a conviction later overturned in a US Supreme Court ruling. Two years later, protesting on behalf of Ethiopian Jewry at the World Zionist Congress outside the Jerusalem Convention Center, he was beaten and arrested by Israeli border police. (He was released without charge.)

Silverman found the young Abramowitz to be âa totally original character.â Hailing from a liberal, secular family that was its own lonely Borscht Belt in a white-bread suburb of Manchester, N.H., Silverman was a free spirit. The oldest of four sisters, she and her siblings were eliciting gasps from Republicans with a rendition of Rocky Horrorâs âTime Warpâ at a local pub while Abramowitz was spending a high school year tending livestock on a kibbutz. She jokes that she majored in âsmoking and drinkingâ at BUâpsychology, actuallyâwhile Abramowitz designed his own major in Jewish public policy.

But since childhood Silverman had also felt a pull to embrace her faith. In Abramowitz, who was chair of the World Union of Jewish Students and an activist for the rights of Soviet Jews, she found someone who followed his own compass, a man for whom Judaism was synonymous with social justice. Both protÃ©gÃ©s of the late historian and social activist Howard Zinn, a CAS professor emeritus of political science, they showed up for the same rallies and sat together bleary-eyed at a four-day vigil against BUâs South Africa investments outside Silberâs office. Abramowitz says he first spoke to Silverman when she was coming out of Zinnâs office and he was on his way in. âI asked, âWhen do you graduate?â and she said, âNext week,â and I said, âWell, have a nice life.ââ

Their actual first date is a matter of dispute. An occasionally rocky decade and many geographical separations later, when they decided to marryâthe ceremony was performed by Levine, an ordained rabbi who has since presided over the bar and bat mitzvahs of several of the coupleâs childrenâAbramowitz declared that their future together was destiny. Silvermanâs take was, she says, âWeâre so devoted to each other that weâll thumb our noses at destiny.â

âWeâre complete opposites,â says Silverman.

While most of us react to media images of war orphans with impotent heartache, Silverman has written a theological manifesto rallying fellow Jews to welcome those orphans into their families.

Shortening Their Name to Just…Jews

Tall, athletically built, and prone to swearing, Silverman rails against injustice in a honey-coated voice nearly identical to that of her sister Sarah, who lives in Los Angeles near middle sisters Jodyne, a writer and producer, and Laura, who played Sarahâs sister on Comedy Centralâs The Sarah Silverman Program.

Sarah, who famously managed to use the word âvaginaâ repeatedly in her speech at niece Alizaâs bat mitzvah, is also a serious and outspoken supporter of her sister and brother-in-lawâs causes. She paid tribute to the couple early in her career in one of her few appearances on Saturday Night Liveâs âWeekend Update.â âMy sister Susie just got married, and they took each otherâs names,â Sarah announced. âSo now sheâs Susan Silverman-Abramowitz. But theyâre thinking of shortening it to just…Jews.â

For all his defiance, Abramowitz appears bemused and slightly disheveled, his milkich complexion forever cowering under the Middle Eastern sun he has labored so hard to harness. His nature is forgiving. âHe never wishes anyone ill,â says his wife. And from former colleague Palestinian-Israeli engineer Tareq Abuhamed, âIâve never seen him get angry.â This isnât necessarily seen as a virtue. Amir Cohen, at the time the chief operating officer of Abramowitzâs pre-Israel, multimillion-dollar media company, Jewish Family & Life, was quoted in a 2006 Jewish Week article as saying that Abramowitz âis almost oblivious to bad news. His half glass is always completely full. If he believes in Jewish peoplehood, he cannot imagine why this is not the thing everyone is fully committed to.â

One of Abramowitzâs forearms is obscured by a rainbow of rubber bracelets honoring various causes, and his rÃ©sumÃ© is similarly multihued. The former journalist, editor, and internet entrepreneur has amassed, Zeliglike, a string of right place, right time credits. These include winning the free speech ruling while at BU, engineering a gathering of thousands of Jews âleft behindâ in Ethiopia, being the last person to see Lubavitcher Grand Rebbe Menachem Schneersonâconsidered by his followers to be the messiahâalive, and immigrating to Israel already a candidate for the Knesset (he joined the unsuccessful ticket as a favor to a politically like-minded Israeli friend). For three years Abramowitz was president of the Union of Councils for Soviet Jews, and he was the keynote speaker at Russiaâs 2004 national human rights convention. He helped to establish the Ethiopian Atid Ehad party in Israel and worked to bring solar energy to Israeli Bedouins.

Thereâs more. With a masterâs from the Columbia School of Journalism, the young journalist single-handedly took down the leadership of the Jewish National Fund (JNF)âyes, the one Jewish children everywhere collect pennies forâafter uncovering its creative financing. These revelations resulted from a freelance assignment Abramowitz, who had been an editor at Moment magazine, took on reluctantly because he needed the cash, but ended up costing him more than he was paid. In typical Abramowitz fashion, he threw himself into the story, hiring private investigators and paying for travel out of his own pocket. (The JNF has since become a vigorous supporter of the Arava Institute for Environmental Studies, an educational center and alternative energy think tank based at Ketura, where Arava Power was born.)

Silverman earned a masterâs at Harvard and was ordained at Hebrew Union CollegeâJewish Institute of Religion in New York City. She is one of a handful of women rabbis in Jerusalem. Last October she and Abramowitz ran for the Jerusalem City Council on a progressive, mostly female ticket dubbed Ometz Lev, Hebrew for âcourage of heart.â Founded by former Jerusalem deputy mayor Naomi Tsur, the newly hatched party promotes environmental responsibility, diversity, and equality for women. Its platform reads like a mission statement for Silverman and Abramowitz, whose 19-year-old daughter, Hallel, worked 12-hour days for the campaign while on a gap year between graduating high school and mandatory service in the Israeli army. The party fared miserably a month later, with less than one percent of the vote, which went largely to the ultraorthodox, or Haredi, Jews, who in their modest dress and unbending ways hold sway in the Holy City. The Harediâs fundamentalism and some of their tacticsâlike hurling stones at Women of the Wall protestorsârender Silverman apoplectic.

Abramowitz says he is grateful to Boston University for jump-starting “a lifetime of beating up governments for good causes.â

Battling cynicism, politics, and entrenched interests

Michael Cohen, a Vermont rabbi and director of strategic partnerships for Friends of the Arava Institute, the supporting American arm of the nonprofit environmental group, was among the founding faculty of the institute at Kibbutz Ketura in the mid-â90s, when Abramowitz brought his young family back to live in the community where heâd spent a year two decades earlier.

Cohen recalls Abramowitz âcrumpling in the desert heatâ and assuming that the kibbutz had, at the very least, solar-powered air conditioners. Abramowitz (a journalist, not an engineer) did some quick research and learned that his family had joined 150 others under some of the highest levels of solar radiation on the planet. From then on, no one could tell him that a solar field, which would initially use more power than it would generate, was a pipe dream. âPeople said, âYou are a naÃ¯ve American kibbutznik. If it was a good idea, someone wouldâve done it already,ââ Abramowitz recalls. âI said, âWeâre in the middle of the desert. It makes complete sense to me.ââ

In 2006, with office space donated by Arava Institute, Abramowitz teamed with American investor David Rosenblatt and longtime Ketura member Ed Hofland to âdo the impossible: battle the cynicism, the politics, and the entrenched interests and push forwardâ to establish a solar power industry in Israel, says Cohen. Five years later, after the resistance of 23 separate agencies, the 49.5-megawatt Ketura Sun rose, the only solar field in the world with a mezuzah. (It also functions as a sundial.) Unfolding at the edge of the kibbutz like a Goliath-sized deck of cards, Ketura Sun is expected to offset approximately 125,000 metric tons of carbon dioxide. And as Cohen observes, âit wasnât just about energyâit was about peace. Arava teamed with Palestinians and Israeli Bedouins.â Arava is now a $20 billion industry, and Ketura Sun is one of six Arava-run solar fields, three on other kibbutzim in the south near Ketura and two in the northern Negev near Beersheba.

Abramowitzâs success with Arava has thrust him into the headlines of Hâaaretz and the conservative Jerusalem Post, which report on his string of honors, most recently the Bonei Zion Prize, awarded by Nefesh BâNefesh, or Jewish Souls United, a nonprofit that promotes aliyah from North America and the United Kingdom. Itâs given to six Israelis from English-speaking countries who âencapsulate the spirit of modern-day Zionismâ by making a significant contribution to the state of Israel. Abramowitz was cited for his entrepreneurship and technology. In February the Jerusalem Post ran a story under the headline âCaptain Sunshine mulling presidential run,â with a photo of Abramowitz standing with an arm thrown affectionately over the shoulder of Peres as Susan and Sarah Silverman look on. In the article, Abramowitz, who concedes he is mostly testing the waters for a more realistic pitch in 2021, said that if the Knesset âdecides they donât want the brand equity of the presidency to be an aging politician…they know who to call.â

Even with the seven-year wait for the next Knesset vote, Abramowitz would be Israelâs youngest president since the nationâs birth in 1948. âWeâre a young, vibrant, innovative country that has a lot to offer the world,â he says. âWouldnât it be amazing if the president mirrored that?â Although the presidency would require him to step down from his executive roles, he wants it so badly that he can, well, taste it. âFirst of all, the presidentâs house would be vegetarian,â Abramowitz says. âWe would have pluralistic Friday night services that would be televised. Iâd create a Jewish Peace Corpsâstyle program and export sustainable food and energy technologies to Africa. Every time ambassadors would come to present their credentials, Iâd ask about the carbon footprints of their country and whatâs being done to reduce them. And Iâd ask about human rights for minorities in their countries.â

âAnd ours,â Silverman adds. âYes,â he says. âAnd ours.â

A Tactic Passed Down from activist Howard Zinn

Silverman has a terrible sense of direction, an inconvenient manifestation of her spaciness that forces her to backtrack along the cobbled byways of the Old City on her way to the Western Wall, or Kotel.

It has been a site for Jewish prayer and pilgrimage dating back as far as the fourth century. In the past year Silverman has become a prominent voice for Women of the Wall. At one point Silverman and a companion dodge a raucous bar mitzvah procession, a kind of Semitic second-line parade with blaring horns and balloons in the blue-and-white colors of Israel. Passing through the security gate, where she faces a soldierâs scrutiny for her Women of the Wall T-shirt, she collides with another bar mitzvah, and frowns. At the Wall, all of the womenâyoung girls, grandmothers, mothersâare on one side of a wooden barrier, teetering on plastic chairs and craning their necks to glimpse the jubilation of the men in their unrestricted area. Silverman is incensed. The right of women to pray, marry, and mourn freely, she says, âis not negotiable.â

In February 2012 Hallel asked to go with her mother to Rosh Chodesh, âthe head of the month,â or new moon, when women protesters gather to don tallit and pray at the Wall. Silverman was booked on a flight to the United States that morning, but at the urging of her daughter and her husband, she rescheduled, and arms linked with her daughter, got arrested instead. (In May 2013 an Israeli judge ruled that a 2003 Supreme Court ruling prohibiting women from carrying a Torah or wearing tallit at the womenâs section of the Wall had been misinterpreted, which put an end to the arrests there.) Hallel had learned the civil disobedience tactic of going limp, passed down through her mother from Zinn, and she used it as the police dragged her off. (Although the Zinns were not observant Jews, Howardâs wife, Rosalyn, referred to Silverman as âour rabbi.â) In awe of Zinn after taking his lecture class as a BU junior, Silverman began going to see the popular professor at his office. âHeâd sit there eating his roast beef sandwich, and Iâd ask him questions like, âHow do you change the world?ââ she recalls. âHeâd take a bite and then flash this Howard Zinn sunshine smile and say, âOne person at a time.ââ

Silverman postponed a flight to the United States, linked arms with her daughter at the Western Wall, and got arrested instead.

Abramowitz first tore a page from Zinnâs book when he resisted, by peaceful means, the Universityâs efforts to remove that now-iconic antiapartheid banner. âSusan and I went to Hillel House and got big poster boards and made huge signs that said, DIVEST, which were promptly removed by Buildings and Grounds,â Abramowitz recalls. âSo we hung another one, and when B&G came to my door, I put on my prayer shawl and tefillin and just stood in the doorway praying with my eyes closed. This poor guy didnât know what to do, so he just left. It was unbelievable. Iâd won a little battle using a tactic Zinn was preaching.â When Silber tried to evict Abramowitz from his dorm, the case caught the attention of a BU School of Law student named Steve Masters (LAWâ86), who presented the case to the American Civil Liberties Union. With Zinnâs help, the law firm Hill & Barlow represented Abramowitz pro bono, leading to the Supreme Courtâs free speech ruling in his favor.

At BU Abramowitz also caught the attention of Nobel Laureate Elie Wiesel (Hon.â74), BUâs Andrew W. Mellon Professor in the Humanities, who despite his close relationship with Silber became a supporter and friend. âI was always scared to go see him because I never thought I was ready,â Abramowitz says of Wiesel. âBut when this whole thing was heating up, I finally walked into his office, and Martha, his assistant, said, âItâs about time.ââ Wiesel, says Abramowitz, âgave me chazakah,â Hebrew for strength. Years later, Wiesel would write the introduction to Jewish Family and Life: Traditions, Holidays, and Values for Todayâs Parents and Children, a book coauthored by Silverman and Abramowitz.

In the 1990s, Silverman served two years at Congregation Or Chadash, a Reform synagogue in Germantown, Md., doubling its congregation. But the job was so all-consuming that one day she heard herself rushing her toddler past some flowers the child had stopped to smell. âI actually told my daughter there was no time to smell the roses,â says Silverman, and she decided then and there to phase out of the job.

These days, she says, âI have no pulpit, but it means that everything I do represents the Jewish people in some way.â She recently finished and is shopping publishers for a book called Casting Lots: How Raising My Children Helped Me Find God, a theology on adoption that is also a manifesto. As Levine observes, âItâs the most anti-Nazi policyâa vision where values matter more than blood.â Her website JustAdopt.net is a play on words: âJust Do It, and Justice,â she says. Adoption resources abound online, but Silverman sees her mission as coaxing people to consider international adoption, through stories, videos, and slideshows of adoptive families like hers. âItâs to inspire people,â she says, and to correct what she sees as pervasive misconceptions about international adoption.

Silverman, Abramowitz, and increasingly, their children are not shy about saying they want to change the world. But many of the barriers they face are homegrown: the Orthodox grip on Israelâs government, its resistance to renewable energy. Yet in spite of its problems, Israel is a perfect fit for Abramowitz and Silverman, who take a page from David Ben-Gurion, Israelâs first prime minister and one of Abramowitzâs heroes, who said, âIn Israel, in order to be a realist you must believe in miracles.â

They revere what they call the countryâs organic lifestyle for people of their values. âAnd considering the saga of the Jewish people, who were able to reemerge into history with power and ingenuity after 2,000 years of exile, is so inspiring,â says Abramowitz, âbut I donât believe in resting on our laurels. A friend of mine asks, how can Israel become a platform for solving global issues, and thatâs whatâs exciting to me. I feel privileged to be part of this story.â