Here's an example:Mark started a new job at a comic book store and has three other coworkers.
Some people may present themselves in different way to gain specific social benefits, like a sense of belonging with a group. You might change the way you speak, adjust opinions to be more palpable, or express interest in something you're only mildly interested in to start conversations and become part of a group. Certain behaviours can be more desirable in certain social situations, and to maximize those situations, presenting yourself in the expected way often yields positive results. Here's an example:Mark started a new job at a comic book store and has three other coworkers. Mark hasn't ever worked at a comic store, but is an avid comic book reader. On Mark's first day, one of the other employees makes a joke about a comic book Mark's never read. Everyone laughs, so Mark also laughs, presenting himself as part of the group and as if he understands the joke. This might help Mark feel more welcome and much less like an outsider.Related: Self-Management Skills (Definition and Tips Included)